Life is impermanent, don't wait to regret it when you lose it.

The recent news has caused many people to pay attention to the people around them. Whether they are family or friends, they will think that there is still time, so they are not in a hurry. Whether it is a change in the way of getting along or the time of meeting, they are only waiting for afterwards to reflect and regret. These things that could have been avoided but have been ignored, but everyone is forgetful. Seeing this kind of incident happen, you may be concerned about the short-lived days. Later, it seems to be forgotten. You may have to wait for it to happen by your side.

Making money is very important, but afterwards, there are still opportunities to make money. People have no chance. If there is no chance, there will be no chance again. Now many people will leave their homes to work and study. There is no problem with this. Personal choice, but there is a way that was correct in retrospect. I used to hear that foreigners were sent to work in other countries and brought their families (wife, children) with them. In Asia, many people travel alone and emotionally. The connection is quite different. This is not the most important thing. At least when something happens, the person is around and accompanied by family members.

If something happens to your family members in a foreign country, you will not be able to do anything even if you rush back, and it will be too late. Therefore, many things that you regret have happened and heard, and it will not help you to question your original choices. , It has happened after all.

Recently, a family friend had to be hospitalized for surgery. The luck was pretty good. When the cancer was in the first stage, he found that he could still have surgery for treatment. The environment at home is not bad. They drive a famous car and live in a good house. My son is studying in the United States and my husband is working in China. It sounds like a very enviable family, but I asked a question. For me, the key question is, is anyone coming back from their family?

The answer I got was no. One son wants to stay in the U.S. to study for a master's degree after graduating from college, and the other continues to study in college. My husband works in China and has no plans to come back to accompany me. A pile of words, I don’t know where to start. Although cancer is detected in time and treated in time, it is still a big disease, and surgery is also a big thing. Regardless of the size of the operation, it is risky, but no one came back to visit Accompanying me is a bit unimaginable.

We all hope that everything goes smoothly and peacefully, but we are not each other’s family members. We don’t know what they think. They seem to be very strong. Can’t we stop studying or ask for leave? Work can't stop, no one can help you deal with it? Even if no one comes back, what should happen? Will all the family members regret it forever? No matter how strong people are, they can't stand it.

There are many things that happen in life. No one can predict any accidents. If you can stay by your side or care about it as much as possible, just do it. Some prices can be bearable and some cannot be bearable. If you lose it, you lose it. , You will not come back, even if you regret it, you can’t save it. In order to avoid remorse in the future, it is better to cherish the current people and things, especially your relatives are the most important people in your life.


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